Shon and I spent about an hour last night packing up everything that we think we need to take with us. It was surprisingly easy for everything to fit, and the pack is not really that heavy.
We are using covertable carryon packs from the Rick Steves Collection, along with the packing cubes to keep the bags more organized. We can both get along with 1 large and 2 small packing cubes each, plus a pair of shoes in a plastic grocery bag.
The goal is to carry-on on the way to Paris. Both of our packs weigh less than 20 pounds full--mine is 15 and his is 18. Last I checked, American allows 20 pounds in a carry-on bag + a personal item. We will also take an additional daypack (as our personal item)--keeping our toiletries & jackets in there just in case we end up having to check the bags.
Even with all this good news--I still want to take even less! I'm wondering, can I get away with 2 pairs of pants for 2 weeks? (Wear one, pack one.) Could I just wash my underwear every single night, and get a way with wearing one, packing one? Could I deal with wearing zero make up? Seriously though, my makeup doesn't take up that much space. ;)
It's all coming together, but I am happy knowing that I felt "overpacked" but left with plently of room!